India: Male Preserve Society

The other day I was scratching my head. A question was suddenly aroused (actually not unexpectedly but was in the mind) in my mind why our nation practices Male Preserve Society structure? I couldn’t get the answer. I think I’m too young to find the answer or not experienced enough to understand the structure. But what I learned from my past is there are three types of people who influence this structure.

Father Figures-Comprises all the male persons

Mother Figures-encompasses all the female 

persons 

Both the sexes-Involving all the Adam’s and Eve’s

Now one thing may be confusing how I add women in this social structure. The answer is in my opinion today’s women are rapidly becoming Father Figures with their stubborn attitude and rigid thoughts. Rigid thoughts mean their attitude to avenge men or male preserve people. What they think that I don’t know, but this will lead to nowhere. 

Our society needs to bridge the gap of manly hood and womanly hood by taking best of both the worlds. This will eventually give some ray of hope. As our society is divided in to two different contrasting parts. The first is the ancient patriarchy and the second one is the new version of firebrand women. However, both the worlds are living on two poles. why this has happened? The reason is crystal clear. I don't want to indulge in the past but what i am seeing is very sad picture of our society.

Both the sexes are quarreling for the power. But another question struck to my mind. If on one fine morning all the paternal structure vanishes from India then what will happen? Matriarchy will take its holding but what will be the next move? Do the matriarchy will give men their equal rights? Is it not possible that as like today's women fighting for equality the men will also do the same? Then what will be the role of societal structure who from the past based their findings on the power structure of men in every field. The NEW women according to some statistical data comprises only 2% of Indian population. Feminists want demolition of Patriarchal society and power of matriarchy. What the change then it be? Does it fill the gap like the height of Mt. Everest. In my opinion this will won't change 'coz if we looked at the history of the world. Patriarchy hasn't changed a bit but matriarchy didn't survived. Avenging the patriarchal society is not the answer, the solution is in the changing the attitude of both the social structure and making a mutual understanding. 

Again will this change the face of the society? Time will tell. But what I want is the new version of society must understand core problem of both the worlds. There must not be misunderstanding, misconception, and misdirection about man-woman relationship. Both the party's must be equally conditioned to understand meaning of human being. If this will come in practical then the society will find the answer ancient people were always asking WHAT IS THE PURPOSE OF LIFE? 

I always live on hope and this time I'm sure the Indian society, which is held as the most ancient and accomplished civilization on the earth, will find the answer.

Till then Adieus!!!!