Possessive Men

I woke up with one thought in mind why all men are possessive about women not to mention their beloved's, girlfriends, wives, and daughters. I have no answer for this but upon thinking I zeroed my self at some points.

The first thing, I have never come across any man or men who are talking merry things about their women. Why do they never talk better or positive side of them? Why two married or unmarried men never talk about their girlfriends or wives? On the contrary if two or four married women are chatting then their respective husbands is the hot topic following children and shopping.

If four men are grouped together they would talk about or discuss hell lot of things including financial crisis, inflation, or any other things but not about their better halves. Why is it so? My opinion is irrespective of modernization, industrialization, or better education men possesses the same mind set of Adam. During primitive ages man use to hunt for shelter, food, and protection. Even before this, a man and a woman was one of the species on this planet. The social structure was not set so the prime importance was to protect and survive. As individuals men and women were living 'secure' life and only met to extend the family tree.

During this time women were conditioned as the center of the family or we can say they understood the importance of secured and strong breed which a powerful man may possess. Possessing a strong man have put them on the forefront to carry forward the genes they are belonging.

Some years ago there was a TV show called The Battle of Sexes aired on the Discovery channel. It was about how two male parts fight for the possession of a female partner. I think today's men do not talk about their women or possessive about them is due to this factor. I have seen my married friends talking about their horny dreams, first encounter of sex, first-night after marriage, or simply about sex but very few talks about their physical relation with wife. Instead of this, they would take part in discussion regarding the other married woman, a school or college going gorgeous girl, or a friend's wife. Upon meeting for the first time with a friend's wife they would think about how is she in bed? Whether she is like my wife or as like a porn star. This may be exaggerating but I was witness for several of these HOT discussions.

On the other hand, last year I spent several hours among women who happens to be my colleagues. They used to discuss about their husbands, how he is good enough to handle family and children. However, they would never discuss about their sexual life obviously cause I was there. Anyways, I'm not interested in this thing my point is I have never heard a woman talking about a man apart from her husband. As like for her, her husband and children is the world and she has achieved what she has always wanted to be. But is it the same about a man? Do he has the similar mind set like his woman? Nope. For me, the modern men haven't changed or can we say that nature hasn't interrupted his behavior he is possessing from several thousand years.

These observations may be superficial or may be due to I haven't have my WOMAN or may be these will change after prolonged years of experience. Till then I have to look for a woman whom I would be possessed about.